In order to have an opinion about
anything you have to begin with a series of basic assertions and
assumptions. And even though we prefer to have our worldviews
grounded upon concrete experiences and ideas, the truth of the matter
is that this isn't really ever the case.
The reality is that we, as human
beings, choose how to approach the world around us based on many
often contrary sets of stimuli and ideas. As a fundamentally tribal
species of primate we do share many foundational traits regardless of
ethnicity or culture, the evidence of which is all around us. And yet
when these similarities become modulated by culture they can also
lead to vast and shockingly opposing worldviews.
One need only be a passingly attentive
student of history to realize one fundamental truth about human
beings. Humans can be convinced, at the level of the individual up to
the scale of whole societies, to value the wrong things. Granted, by
even making such a statement, I am making a truth claim about what
constitutes right and wrong. And that my friends...is actually the
point of this little blog post.
Before we make judgments about the
things we observe and experience in our lives, we modulate our
opinions through a series of foundational ideas we rely on as “our
truth”. Whatever that “truth” might be for you or for me might
be different, true enough, but in my experience the differences are
often negligible. Rather, what I often see and experience is people
in general seem to share a commonality in ethical considerations that
they merely fail to apply as globally to their existence as they
think they do.
My foundational philosophy is painfully
simple, and one that doesn't require the structure of a dogma or
ideology to support (which is perhaps the primary reason I'm both not
religious, nor all too keen on things like political affiliations).
- Learn more about myself and the world around me than I knew before.
- Know and experience the value of compassion and love for those around us, and strive to alleviate suffering where you can.
You'd be surprised how far that can get
you, and all without dusty iron age books or authority figures
telling you what to believe, value, or fear. Simple in statement,
yet complex in practice, it does at least save you from the pitfalls
of being wrong about something because you valued authority over
evidence. It doesn't absolve you from blame, rather it lays the blame
solely where it belongs when things go south (i.e. namely at your own
feet), which is equal parts humbling and liberating.
Learning is the most difficult aspect
of this simple philosophy of mine. Because it requires that you
actually pay attention. It demands that you devour information. And
it requires you to be healthily skeptical of almost everything, even
and especially of things you might at first glance agree with.
To make decisions based on the
knowledge gleaned from learning you must also equally grasp the real
nature of compassion and love. And it's really here where the
difficult ideological battles occur.
The nature of love and compassion can
be deconstructed in scientific and evolutionary terms, but often that
truth is largely meaningless to most people. For some reason, to
many, being able to explain why our emotional frameworks work as they
do somehow cheapens the experience. I think this is the reason why
people hold onto ideas like “spirituality” or concepts like the
human soul, because it is somehow more comforting than accepting that
how we experience the world (and our place in it) is all due to a few
pounds of meat in our skulls.
This “otherwordly” nature most
people ascribe to their ethical frameworks is, in my experience,
almost entirely why people can often value the wrong things. The
other significant reason is simply the fact that people can be
convinced that almost anything is true, even if it's a truth that is
demonstrably false. Even if it's something that goes against our
nature.
I recall this image being discussed in a book I recently read.
I recall this image being discussed in a book I recently read.
One of the most difficult things to do
is fake a smile. One of the reasons why we revere actors in our
culture is that they have mastered the difficulty of portraying
believable emotions. It is the reason why actors have to immerse
themselves in a character, because it is nearly impossible to portray
emotions that you do not inwardly experience. It is also the reason
why 3D CGI can come across as creepy (hence the term “the uncanny
valley") because human facial expressions are complex and nearly
impossible to fake.
Because of this it is perceptual childs
play, from a scientific perspective, to spot genuine and fake smiles
in a photograph. As human beings we do this intuitively, but thanks
to the analytical capabilities of machines we can and have raised
this to a fine art. As such, the photograph above has been shown objectively to clearly depict people feeling genuine happiness and joy, within themselves and with
their colleagues. There are no fake smiles there, so it'd be difficult to think of these people as monsters wouldn't it?
The fact that the picture is of the
administrative staff of the Auschwitz concentration camp, a place
where unconscionable horrors against our fellow humans took place, in
no way seems to have interfered with their ability to have fun.
Disturbing? Perhaps. Telling? Most definitely. And what it tells us is a rather disturbing truth about ourselves. Remember this picture the next time you form some opinion or other about a fellow human being.
One of my favorite quotes, which is
also an important foundation of my second point about compassion is
this.
“Anyone, anywhere in the world, for any reason suffering needlessly is enough reason for me to question my values.” - Penn Jillette
“Anyone, anywhere in the world, for any reason suffering needlessly is enough reason for me to question my values.” - Penn Jillette
There are many things I would not find
myself agreeing with that have crossed the lips of that guy, but this
isn't one of them.
The next time you feel compelled to
form an opinion on some trending topic of the day “gay marriage,
transgenderism, racism, guns, free markets, vaccines, government
regulation, contraception, gmo's etc...” at least do yourself the
courtesy of going back to your foundations and asking yourself
whether or not the opinion you have formed tracks with what you say
you value and believe in.
It keeps you from letting your perceptions and innate biases steer you on the wrong course.
It keeps you from letting your perceptions and innate biases steer you on the wrong course.